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i believe that the greatest fear we all have as human beings / is the fear of loneliness― / no one to love us, care about us, or be there for us. as a result of this fundamental fear, / we worry that we’ll be rejected in relationships, business, and life. we often think about what we’ll do, what we’ll say, / and specifically what requests we’re willing to make of others / based on our fear of what we expect the response will be. because of this fear, / we often don’t say what we really mean, / or don’t ask for what we really want.requests가 앞으로 나온 이유도 알고싶습니다.